Hey guys, I will love to share some of the lessons I've learnt lately, I mean lessons of life😂😂😂 We don't stop learning though, the moment we stop learning, we stop living.
Straight to my lessons :
•Never get to a point in your life where people’s interest don't matter to you. Never at any point in your life treat people like they don't matter. Most times, we do somethings unintended not knowing that some person(s) has been affected negatively, and you know what? You’ve created an impression in their minds already,which could be wrong, especially when these people are strangers. Dear friends, let's be careful with the way we treat people.
•Be careful not to burden the people around you. Sometimes we actually think we're helping out when on the other hand, you're only being a burden. Ensure you confirm before you take jobs or assignment on behalf of a friend! At times, you tell a third party, “I'm sure Felix or Gloria can do this, I'm sure he or she is not busy”. My dear, let Gloria speak for herself, it's better not to promise anyone.
•They say “if wishes were horses, beggars will ride”, most times we have a lot of wishes in our hearts but how many of us say them? We just harbour and nurture them in our hearts … You don't know when that good Samaritan will come around😁, you really can't tell if that friend will be inspired to do something about that wish! So darlings, I encourage you to speak, of course you don't have to sound like you're begging (no no!!!, that's not what I'm talking about). I'm saying, make those wishes known! I remember sometimes last month, I was craving pizza, I just mentioned it somewhere, and I got it, free! Lately been craving for a free photoshoot😄😄😄(my wish. Don’t resist the Lord, if you're inspired to😁)
•Take a chill pill :Hey, life isn't that serious! Why get yourself worried over that stuff? One of my friends said something :“Jesus already died for all the troubles, so why should I kill myself?” I totally agree, worry will not change the situation, so what's the point? My dear, take your mind off the worries, laugh at the confusion, their decision cannot control your moving forward! Get going dear!
•Be open-minded : Do you have an idea that most times we are the ones that get ourselves into unnecessary issues. We sometimes make up our mind that something is not going to work out, sometimes we limit ourselves, sometimes we jump into conclusions. Have an open mind lovelies, be positive, be open to taking positive advice from friends. You haven't even tried it at all and you conclude it's not not going to work out, who does that??? (lol)
Thanks for reading darlings! What do you think about the lessons? What are your lessons lately? Will be glad to receive your comments!
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Nice piece👍👍
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by dear Opeyemi. Your comments are always appreciated. 💜💜💜
DeleteVery sublime lessons.
ReplyDeleteI can really relate to accepting a responsibility on behalf of someone without their consent. I remember taking a task on behalf of a friend to write a documentary . It turned out he was so busy, and the deadline was closing up. I ended up writing the documentary myself. It toped as the best adventure I undertook in 2016.
I think it's necessary to not assume on behalf of anyone. Assumption is never precise, you know? Sad thing is that a lot of times, these people don't tell you they are too busy to do it for you because they value you and the relationship they have with you and so, you end up being an inconvenience to that person.
DeleteSad, really.
You are right OlaYinka, we all should take the lesson. Thanks for stopping by dear. Your comment is highly appreciated
DeleteThank you Bro Mike, so you ended up doing what you wanted someone else to do however it was like a blessing in disguise. Thanks for stopping by sir. Your comment is highly appreciated. Don't stop coming around.
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