There is a saying that goes thus “If you want to go fast go alone, if you want to go far, go with people”...May I add that you should not just go with people but the right people.
Would be sharing on “Find Your Tribe”(Who are the people you should call friends?)
The truth is success is sweet, achievements are awesome, they are however more awesome when you are not just the one celebrating at all times.
The importance of knowing and going for your tribe cannot be overemphasized.
So many people out there have made resolutions to never have friends as a result of the weight of griefs they’ve suffered from wrong friends.
So many have chosen to stick to one or two friends because of “trust issues”... I sincerely don't blame them those kind of people, they are only trying to prevent more hurts.
However, friendship is sweet and fun (when you are with the right people). There are people we sometimes think are our friends until (God opens our eyes😁😁) we get to know who they truly are…
Who are the people that should be in your Tribe?
• Amazing Supporters: Your tribe fellows, or people in your circle should be your true supporters, they should be your backbone, your fans, your cheerleaders. Your friends should not be people that pull you down, they should embrace your dreams and support you through.
• Happy people : Never allow saddists in your circle. People that are never happy for/with you shouldn't be in your Tribe. If you are never happy around them, please get a new circle. If your friends don't clap loudly when you share a good news, get a new circle!
• Real people : Get yourself people that are real, people that are never afraid to tell you the truth, friends that never pretend, friends that would applaud you when you deserve it and would scold you when you deserve it.
• Purposeful people: Lol, when I say purposeful, I don't mean all-work-no-fun-kinda-people, of course not! I mean people who have a good sense of who they want to be and where they are headed, not just people that want to exist and depart from this world without making a mark! Of course, for you to have such friends, it means you have to be that kind of person, “you attract who your kind of person”.
•Love : Above all, get yourself your true lovers! We all know the word “love” has been underrated in this 21st century, everyone says “I love you” every now and then(lol)… In other words, you can't determine your lovers by the mere use of the 3 words “I love you” but by the actions that depict love. Love should not merely be in words but in actions… Show love and never settle for that which is not love.
Above are just some tips for you in discovering your true Tribe members, you can add yours to the list😜😜😜
There is so much joy in knowing that you have true,loyal and faithful friends.
Darlings, don't just be on the lookout for good people, be that kind of person you want to attract, remember that old-time-yet-true saying “Show me your friend and I will tell you who you are”
Cheers to loving, living and doing great!
All of this are true. Get yourself friends who will push you to keep being the better version of yourself and most importantly like it was stated up there, be the kind of friend you want to attract.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this LODF😍😍...So good to read from you again. It's been a while.
Thanks for stopping by sweetie... Yes, been a while!!! Good to be back too 😆😆😆
DeleteThe amazing feeling you have when you are surrounded with good Freinds...
ReplyDeleteweldone LODF
Yeah, an amazing feeling it truly is... Thank youuuuu Eyitayo for stopping by😆😆
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